Jonny, a 15-year-old student, is checking his dad’s old jacket. He says, “You’re 45. Dad, you’re never going to wear this again. Can I have it?”
Keith has had a bad day at work, and he is feeling old. And Jonny has hit his pain. Keith raises his voice and says, “What? You mean I’m too old to wear the jacket again?”
Jonny feels like this has come out of nowhere, and now he feels hurt. But I only asked, “Why are you shouting at me?”
“But I don’t like being treated as though I’m too old.” Both of them feel a bit upset.
Have you ever had a similar argument with the people around you? Here are some tips for you to remember when you’re getting mad.
● Accept your feelings and consider the other person’s feelings. That means not always making yourself “right” or “clever” and the other person “wrong” or “stupid”.
● Explain yourself and not the other person, so you can speak out your ideas by starting with “I” but not “You”.
● Don’t always have to reflect before reacting (回应) . If you feel angry, I think it’s a good idea to stop for a moment and understand why.
●Don’t decide the purpose of the other person by your guessing. Try to work out what he or she is feeling, and admit (承认) it if you were wrong.
Don’t forget that it’s never too late to start the ways of communicating.
1 . From the passage, we can know Jonny ________.
A . is school boy B . doesn’t like his dad
C . thinks his dad is too old D . wants his dad’s new jacket
2 . Jonny felt hurt because his dad ________.
A . hit is pain B . had a busy dag C . liked the jacket D . was angry with him
3 . To avoid an argument, the writer gives us ________ suggestions.
A . 2 B . 3 C . 4 D . 5
4 . According to the passage, if you want to express your ideas, you’d better begin like this: “________”.
A . You misunderstood me… B . I know how you feel, but…
C . They’re different from us… D . Things aren’t the same…
5 . The best title for the passage can be ________.
A . Learn to Admit Your Mistakes Bravely
B . Be Patient with the People around You
C . An Argument between a Father and a Son
D . Good Ways of Communication Are Important
1 . A
2 . D
3 . C
4 . B
5 . D
【分析】
本文由 Jonny 和爸爸二人的争论,就生气给我们几条建议,告诉我们好的沟通方式很重要。
1 .
细节理解题。根据 “Jonny, a 15-year-old student” 可知, Jonny 是一名学生,故选 A 。
2 .
细节理解题。根据 “and now he feels hurt. But I only asked, ‘Why are you shouting at me?’” 可知, Jonny 感觉受伤是因为他的爸爸对他大叫、跟他生气。故选 D 。
3 .
细节理解题。根据 “ Accept your feelings and consider the other person’s feelings.” , “ Explain yourself and not the other person…” , “Don’t always have to reflect before reacting (回应) .” 和 “Don’t decide the purpose of the other person by your guessing.” 可知,作者给出四条建议,故选 C 。
4 .
推理判断题。根据 “Explain yourself and not the other person, so you can speak out your ideas by starting with ‘I’ but not ‘You’.” 可知,解释你自己而不是别人,这样你就可以从 “ 我 ” 而不是 “ 你 ” 开始说出你的想法。选项 B“ 我知道你的感受,但是 ……” 符合,故选 B 。
5 .
最佳标题题。根据 “Don’t forget that it’s never too late to start the ways of communicating.” 和全文内容可知,本文就生气给我们几条建议,告诉我们好的沟通方式很重要。故选 D 。
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A wedding(婚礼) Invitation
You’re invited to the wedding of Carrie and Henry at St John’s Church(教堂), on Saturday January 24th at 3:30 p.m. and dinner at the Blue Sky Restaurant, at 6:00p.m.
R.S.V.P: December 29th
Dear Joe, I’m so excited and I have to enjoy the news with you. Today is December 23rd, I got a very special invitation from Carrie before Christmas Day(圣诞节). Do you remember the party for the Sydney group at Henry’s house? And do you remember my best friend, Carrie? Well, guess what? Carrie and Henry are getting married? It’s so romantic! Love is here! Carrie and Henry are having a big wedding at St. John’s Church. Monica and James are going to their wedding. Oh, I can’t wait to enjoy it. I got the invitation and it is for two people. Can you come to the wedding with me? Carrie and Henry are going to Suzhou for their honey moon(蜜月). I’m buying them a camera for their wedding. But before the wedding, I’d like to get my hair cool and buy a pink dress first. Call me at 9:00 a.m., on Friday, January 23rd, OK? Maria |
36. Maria got this wedding invitation from .
A. Carrie. B. Joe. C. Monica. D. James
37. Monica and James are taking part in the wedding on .
A. Friday morning. B. Friday afternoon. C. Saturday morning. D. Saturday afternoon.
38. What does “getting married” mean in Chinese?
A. 参加聚会 B. 过圣诞节 C. 做礼拜 D. 结婚
39. The friends to the wedding party are going to have dinner .
A. in Suzhou. B. at Henry’s house C. at St John’s Church D. at the Blue Sky Restaurant
40. From the invitation card, we know that .
A. Monica is having fun in Suzhou. B. they are having the wedding in January.
C. Monica is going to buy a camera for Joe D. the wedding dinner starts at 7:00 p.m.
Do you have pen pals? I have three pen pals from three different countries. They are Tom, Ella, and Molly.
Tom comes from Australia. His favorite subject is P.E., because he likes playing soccer best and he can play it in P.E. classes. He has a sister and a brother.
Ella is an American girl. Of all her subjects, she likes Chinese best. She often writes to me in Chinese. Her favorite sport is volleyball.
Molly lives in Tokyo. She likes learning Chinese, too. But her favorite subject is math. When she has time, she likes playing tennis best. She is a very clever girl.
I love them very much.
根据短文内容,将表格补充完整。
Name | From | Living place | Favorite subject | Favorite sport |
Tom | Australia | / | 1. ______ | soccer |
Ella | 2. _____ | / | Chinese | 3. _____ |
Molly | / | 4. ____ | 5. _____ | tennis |